I Have Been Really Struggling and Feeling Stuck with My Goals – Then I Read This

I’ve really been struggling lately.


I’m struggling with not hitting my weight goals, struggling with my business goals, and even struggling with my more personal and financial goals.

I think that turning 48 this year, being 2 years away from the BIG 5 0, and not being where I want to be (physically, financially and in business) are really hitting me harder than I realized.

On my birthday, I set up my intentions for this year of things that I wanted to achieve and accomplish.  At this point, I do not feel any closer to living with those intentions than when I created that list.

I feel like I am really stuck and just spinning my wheels, trying to gain momentum and move forward with really no noticeable results.  The results that I am seeing are more in a backwards motion, than in a forward direction.

I’m not happy with that.

What I notice in my own life, is that when I feel like I am not making forward strides, I don’t feel a sense of accomplishment, and when I don’t feel like I have accomplished anything, I am not a happy girl. 🙁

When I allow myself to get in that negative state of mind, it seems to snowball, and I continue to find more things wrong.  Only because I search them out, not because there are actually more problems!

The fact is that it isn’t even about what happens but how I React to what happens that is my biggest problem.

Last weekend, I was able to deal with my emotions, look at the bigger picture and stop myself from going into an all out emotional eating frenzy.

This weekend, I said “Screw it, What’s the Point”, and I have been eating everything in sight.

  • I knew that wasn’t what I wanted or needed to do,
  • I knew that it was going to kick me OUT of ketosis, and make me feel like crap.
  • I knew that it would only hurt my state of mind.
  • I knew it wasn’t going to solve any of my problems.

Yet I did it anyway! 🙁

Today, I am angry with myself that I allowed my emotions to get the best of me.  I allowed myself to follow that inner sabotaging voice that said – “It’s okay, you deserve a break.  Everyone deserves a break now and then.”.

Today is the second day of the 2nd quarter of 2018.

I am even MORE discouraged than I was at the beginning of the year.

So WHAT the HECK am I going to do about it?


This is NOT my normal frame of mind, it is not like me to be this down and out for such a long time.  And that is making me even more frustrated and down in the dumps.

Then this morning, I had an email from a friend of mine sharing something that got me really pumped up!

It’s called  “The Comeback Manifesto

This 22 page report got me really got me excited, fired up, and ready!

It has me so fired up and ready to face my goals and challenges head on that I HAD to share it with you.  If I am feeling this way, I’m sure many of us are feeling this way.

It’s time for me (and for you) to get a fresh start, and just get moving!!

To get your free report (through my affiliate link), all you have to do is click here.

Once you are on the page, pretend as though you are going to hit the back button to leave – a pop-up will come up.  From there, just enter your information and you will receive the free report.  (Unfortunately, the pop-up  doesn’t work on mobile, you have to be on a desktop or a laptop)

Here’s the thing.  I KNOW what I want.   I even know what I need to do

For me, it’s a problem of timing, execution and being consistent.  It’s a problem of keeping my focus and not getting sidetracked.

Gary is known as the “Goals Guy”.  He works with his clients (the likes of the Navy Seals) to show them specifically how to get from point A to point B FAST.

When I was at the beginning on my journey to health, I lost my first 100 pounds in 8 months!

I followed a proven plan, and I was on fire with the end result in mind.  There was no way I was wanting to do the doctor suggested 5 pounds a month.  I wanted to get it done now. 

The thought of taking 20 months to lose 100 pounds made me not even want to try…

This is exactly what “The Comeback Manifesto” is about.  It is about getting the results you want, and getting them NOW!!

For me, this comes at perfect timing.

This is the kick in the pants that I need to get out of my funk and make some serious result driven changes in the next 100 days.

I don’t want to waste Q2 doing the same things that I have been doing because it will bring me to the end of Q2 even more frustrated and in the same place (or even worse) that I am now.

I’m not sure if you are struggling like me with your goals…

I’m not sure if you’re like me and have some big goals and dreams of where you want to get to this year.

I’m not sure if you are (like me) tired of struggling and not achieving any results….

If you’ve looked at the last 3 months and realize you’re not any closer to where you want to end up this year, NOW is the time to make the necessary changes.

If any of the above is speaking to you, you owe it to yourself to download this free report.

It is something you MUST read!

Here is to crushing some huge goals in the second quarter and the rest of the year!


I’ve decided to actually go ahead and join the challenge, and I will tell you why for me it makes sense…

  1. In order to make the changes that I want to see happen, I need a guide, a method, daily focus  AND some accountability.
  2. Having all of these goals in my head are all good, but are basically just a fancy wish list UNLESS I take some serious fast paced steps toward finally achieving them.
  3. I’m tired of sitting around just bitching and moaning that I DON’T have what I want.

If you are in a place similar to me, and you are really just tired of bitching about nothing changing in your life, maybe it is the right decision for YOU to join the challenge along with me.

If you think it is a good fit, go here and get signed up today.  The doors will close on this challenge in a few days (April 12th), so time is critical.

and remember, “Success LOVES Speed!”


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Talk soon,


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